Hi guys, I am writing this newsletter from Lyon, France, where the weather is so great. I’m here on a road trip with my family, celebrating my little daughter’s upcoming first birthday.
Weekly Inventory Check
Half of June has passed, and as we always emphasize take stock, evaluate what’s working, what isn’t, and most importantly, why. Understanding the ‘why’ is crucial—it provides deeper insights into our actions. So, rather than focusing solely on ‘what’ needs to be done, prioritize understanding ‘why’ and how it aligns with your goals for this month.
Reflections on Fatherhood
Today, I want to talk about Father’s Day, which is today, and my experience of it. It’s my first-ever Father’s Day, and I have no idea how to deal with it. My wife has been nothing short of cute with her planning. I was blindfolded, and a lot of gifts were tried on me in terms of accessories for my hands, neck, and fingers. These were my wife’s gifts for me, and she didn’t want me to see them before Father’s Day. Right now, as we speak, the gift is in the car in the back seat, and I’m not allowed to look at it. She said once we are together in the evening for dinner, she will give me the gift.
This whole journey was nothing short of amazing. Whenever someone asks me how I would describe fatherhood, I say it’s amazing, annoying, frustrating, a blessing—it’s everything all at once. That’s what parenting is in general. You have this little creature in your hands who is your everything, but at certain points, you just want to put yourself first. That delicate balance is what parenting is all about.
As a father, things change over time. We are not the sole breadwinner of the house anymore and that is not our identity. Now, it makes much more sense to be more involved than just providing a paycheck. I’m actively changing diapers, taking care of my daughter, making her sleep, feeding her, and playing with her. It’s not like I don’t like what I’m doing—I think it’s a lot of fun. It’s amazing to spend so much time with my daughter, have my morning routines with her, and enjoy moments like doing yoga together or taking walks while she’s in a carry-on.
At the end of the day, a father desires what every parent does: for their child, who looks up to them, to embody their best qualities, improve upon them, and ultimately become a better person. On Father’s Day, this is my wish for myself and for all fathers and parents. Parenthood means nurturing a new generation to be better versions of ourselves, contributing to a better world for everyone.
Enjoy your week, and happy Father’s Day to all the dads out there!
Want More?
If you’re interested in learning about the habits and tools that successful people use, check out these articles:
· Check out this heartfelt piece on being a “girl dad” and the unique joys and challenges it brings: Fatherhood.
· Explore the surprising history behind why we celebrate Father’s Day: The Surprising History of Why We Celebrate Father’s Day.
· Reflect on the significance of Father’s Day and its personal impact: Father’s Day: A Reflection.
Reel of the Week
Check this out! It’s a father’s day special!
Instagram post by @thisisahadbudhani
The Weekly Vasl Podcast
Our episode on Is the pathway to success, the same for all? is out now. You can watch it below. This Friday, Mudassir and I were all set for an enlightening discussion on the multifaceted nature of success. In a world filled with entrepreneurs, life coaches, and self-improvement gurus, we are often bombarded with a one-size-fits-all success toolkit. But does this truly capture the full spectrum of what it means to be successful? Through magazine covers and media spotlights, successful individuals often appear as the happiest, most fulfilled versions of themselves. Yet, does this image reflect their entire reality? Are they thriving in every aspect of their lives, or is there more beneath the surface? We explored the unseen and unheard paradoxes associated with living a successful life that challenged conventional wisdom and offered a fresh perspective that might just change the way you think about success. Tune in for a mind-opening conversation that will reveal the complexities and nuances behind the pursuit of success and inspire you to redefine what true achievement means in your own life.
Thoughts to Leave You With
My first Father’s Day has been an incredible experience filled with surprises, love, and a deeper understanding of what it means to be a dad. From my wife’s thoughtful gestures to the everyday moments I share with my daughter, this journey of fatherhood is a blend of joy, challenges, and immense fulfillment. It’s about being present, involved, and cherishing the little things that make up our lives. I’m excited to continue this adventure, witnessing my daughter grow and learning alongside her.
Hi guys, I am writing this newsletter from Lyon, France, where the weather is so great. I’m here on a road trip with my family, celebrating my little daughter’s upcoming first birthday.Weekly Inventory CheckHalf of June has passed, and as we always emphasize take stock, evaluate what’s working, what isn’t, and most importantly, why. Understanding the ‘why’ is crucial—it provides deeper insights into our actions. So, rather than focusing solely on ‘what’ needs to be done, prioritize understanding ‘why’ and how it aligns with your goals for this month.Reflections on FatherhoodToday, I want to talk about Father’s Day, which is today, and my experience of it. It’s my first-ever Father’s Day, and I have no idea how to deal with it. My wife has been nothing short of cute with her planning. I was blindfolded, and a lot of gifts were tried on me in terms of accessories for my hands, neck, and fingers. These were my wife’s gifts for me, and she didn’t want me to see them before Father’s Day. Right now, as we speak, the gift is in the car in the back seat, and I’m not allowed to look at it. She said once we are together in the evening for dinner, she will give me the gift.This whole journey was nothing short of amazing. Whenever someone asks me how I would describe fatherhood, I say it’s amazing, annoying, frustrating, a blessing—it’s everything all at once. That’s what parenting is in general. You have this little creature in your hands who is your everything, but at certain points, you just want to put yourself first. That delicate balance is what parenting is all about.As a father, things change over time. We are not the sole breadwinner of the house anymore and that is not our identity. Now, it makes much more sense to be more involved than just providing a paycheck. I’m actively changing diapers, taking care of my daughter, making her sleep, feeding her, and playing with her. It’s not like I don’t like what I’m doing—I think it’s a lot of fun. It’s amazing to spend so much time with my daughter, have my morning routines with her, and enjoy moments like doing yoga together or taking walks while she’s in a carry-on.At the end of the day, a father desires what every parent does: for their child, who looks up to them, to embody their best qualities, improve upon them, and ultimately become a better person. On Father’s Day, this is my wish for myself and for all fathers and parents. Parenthood means nurturing a new generation to be better versions of ourselves, contributing to a better world for everyone.Enjoy your week, and happy Father’s Day to all the dads out there!Want More?If you’re interested in learning about the habits and tools that successful people use, check out these articles:· Check out this heartfelt piece on being a “girl dad” and the unique joys and challenges it brings: Fatherhood.· Explore the surprising history behind why we celebrate Father’s Day: The Surprising History of Why We Celebrate Father’s Day.· Reflect on the significance of Father’s Day and its personal impact: Father’s Day: A Reflection.Reel of the WeekCheck this out! It’s a father’s day special! Instagram post by @thisisahadbudhani The Weekly Vasl PodcastOur episode on Is the pathway to success, the same for all? is out now. You can watch it below. This Friday, Mudassir and I were all set for an enlightening discussion on the multifaceted nature of success. In a world filled with entrepreneurs, life coaches, and self-improvement gurus, we are often bombarded with a one-size-fits-all success toolkit. But does this truly capture the full spectrum of what it means to be successful? Through magazine covers and media spotlights, successful individuals often appear as the happiest, most fulfilled versions of themselves. Yet, does this image reflect their entire reality? Are they thriving in every aspect of their lives, or is there more beneath the surface? We explored the unseen and unheard paradoxes associated with living a successful life that challenged conventional wisdom and offered a fresh perspective that might just change the way you think about success. Tune in for a mind-opening conversation that will reveal the complexities and nuances behind the pursuit of success and inspire you to redefine what true achievement means in your own life.Thoughts to Leave You WithMy first Father’s Day has been an incredible experience filled with surprises, love, and a deeper understanding of what it means to be a dad. From my wife’s thoughtful gestures to the everyday moments I share with my daughter, this journey of fatherhood is a blend of joy, challenges, and immense fulfillment. It’s about being present, involved, and cherishing the little things that make up our lives. I’m excited to continue this adventure, witnessing my daughter grow and learning alongside her. Powered by beehiiv The Weekly Vasl